On the other hand, both being toddlers, they also have plenty of the other kind of moments, the ones where they are completely on the same wavelength and absolutely delight in each other's presence. Last night was such a time. Jonathan was climbing on and off the changing table. At one point, he stopped just a step from the bottom and said, "Stuck." Now, there was no way he was actually stuck, but then he said, "Vivienne, help." I offered to help him, but he insisted it be Vivienne. Vivienne put out her little hand and held his hand like I do when they need just a tiny bit of help getting down from a chair or some such place. Jonathan grasped her hand and proceeded to get down all by himself and then said, "Dank ooo" or some such toddler version of "Thank you." They both laughed and then did it all over again.
I love seeing the two of them together -- that is, when I am not negotiating who gets to play with what toy when (the idea of "my turn" definitely comes before the idea of "your turn" in child development) or trying to convince him that it wasn't nice to push her down for no reason at all or her that we shouldn't hit people even if they take our stuff. Stephen wondered the other day how Vivienne would be different if she had been the oldest child, and I wonder the same thing at times. I am so glad she wasn't. I am so glad that God not only gave the kids to us but that He also gave them to each other. I love my Taiwan twins and I love seeing how God's plan is unfolding in our family as a whole, no matter how crazy and disorganized we might be.
They had so much fun playing peek-a-boo together the other day. That is to say, they had so much fun once the debate of who got to use which blanket had been resolved by mommy. |
They both adore their new little brother already -- so much so that is was a miracle I managed to get this shot amid the squabbles about who got to lie next to the baby. |
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